Consider Your Mate

Does my dude really fuck with me? Thats a question that many women ask and we often debate over. Their are certain prerequisites neccessary to knowing the answer to that question. First off is consideration. Does he consider you in the things that he does? Take a moment to think about this ladies. When ur feeling a man, you consider him ! Let me give you some examples: you've decided that you're going to go pick up some to-go food, out of consideration you're compelled incorporate to him. What's the first thing we do ladies? Call his punk-ass to see if he wants something from the spot. We as women naturally want to satisfy our lovers. In the midst of that we end up exhausting so much energy. Now this is a scientific fact: When energy is given off, it must be replenished!! 98% of us are not receiving the proper replenishment and nourishment. This goes back to my prior notion of not giving these niggas 100!! As a result we have nothing left. Nothing left for our families, nothing left for our friends, nothing left for our kids, and most importantly, nothing left for ourselves!!
Get a clue honey! If everyone around you has pointed out that that your relationship is taking you to the dark-side, you may need to re-examine things!! Naw, we don't do that. We don't question the source of the change ( that nigga ), no. We turn away from the very people who can help us move .. a tumultuous relationship.
Going back to my original thought about consideration. That consideration is the sustinance needed to keep a bitch from feeling so depleted. The Dream said it so well: " Is she fine? Is shorty a dime? You should tip her, you should tip her! If she thorough, and you love her, you should tip her, you should tip her! If she fix you eggs and grits in the morning man, you should tip her, you should tip her. Pancakes with the bacon on the side..." Its not a gold-digger thing. "Tipping her," doesn't even have to do with things of monetary value. Run my bath water sometimes, rub my shoulders, tell me you think I look good every now and again...
Ladies, DONT get it twisted. It goes both ways. Everybody functions off energy. A man must be replenished too. If you are one of the lucky few receiving the proper care from your honey, whether you do or don't want him permanently, dont abuse that man!! One he doesnt deserve it, especially if he's diligently trying to look out for your bitch-ass. A man scorned is a terrible thing, and why fuck-it up for the next bitch.